StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 1 month agoWhat makes someone a "genuine" person to youmessage-squaremessage-square22linkfedilinkarrow-up120arrow-down10
arrow-up120arrow-down1message-squareWhat makes someone a "genuine" person to youStarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 1 month agomessage-square22linkfedilink
minus-squareℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.netlinkfedilinkarrow-up4arrow-down3·1 month agoLike, genuinely a person? Or do you mean a person who thinks that being “authentic” is more important than being nice?
minus-squareStarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·1 month agoI suppose if you were to distill it down, my question could also be, what makes you trust someone?
minus-squareℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.netlinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down2·1 month agoMe. I make me trust someone. But to get back to your question, by “genuine” do you mean “sincere”? Because that’s not the same as “trustworthy”.
minus-squareStarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·1 month agoI suppose so yes
minus-squaresopularity_fax@sopuli.xyzBanned from communitylinkfedilinkarrow-up1·1 month agoAuthenticity and kindess are seperate categories. Why the suggested conflict?
minus-squareℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.netlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·1 month agoBecause IME the only people who talk about “authenticity” or their “genuine self” use it as an excuse for rude or selfish behavior.
Like, genuinely a person?
Or do you mean a person who thinks that being “authentic” is more important than being nice?
I suppose if you were to distill it down, my question could also be, what makes you trust someone?
Me. I make me trust someone.
But to get back to your question, by “genuine” do you mean “sincere”? Because that’s not the same as “trustworthy”.
I suppose so yes
Authenticity and kindess are seperate categories. Why the suggested conflict?
Because IME the only people who talk about “authenticity” or their “genuine self” use it as an excuse for rude or selfish behavior.