I’ve been self-hosting a bunch of stuff for over a decade now, and have not had that issue.

Except for a matrix server with open registration for a community that others not in the community started to use.

That is what the data Sim is for that I mentioned above.

I’m super happy with jmp.chat

I was hesitant to try it, but once I ported my number over, it’s the best service I’ve ever used.

It’s $5/month, and your phone calls and texts are forwarded to an XMPP account. Voice mails are transcibed and sent as a text, with the included audiofile. It works over the internet, so you can have multiple phones with the number, and you can use your computer for the service as well.

For data, I use jmp.chats data only esim. It’s $7/year + $5/gig but the data never expires.

I would have spent more time at my wedding basking in the moment.

I cared too much being the good host. And I didn’t get to fully be present at the happiness of holding her hand in marriage.

Out of curiosity, for those downvoting this:

What does the word intersectionality mean to you?

What minority group are you willing to throw into the wood chipper next to prevent Trump from winning?

Biden decided that it was more important to commit a genocide then to prevent Trump from likely winning.

It’s not the people unwilling to vote for someone committing genocide that is holding the Presidency hostage.

Israel has doctors amputating Gazan prisoners limbs off because their limbs have died from being zip tied for months on end.

That is what you’re supporting.

Random?

No, not random. A month ago, when the food ran out you were accusing everyone pointing out a genocide was happening of antisemitism.

You know, back when a last ditch effort could have done something.

You accused me of antisemitism, and denied that the ICJ found that Israel was plausibly committing genocide, back when something still could have been done.

Now, the children have started dying.

I’m curious when you well start to admit that you defended genocide?

Will it be after the adults start dying?

How many will be dead before you stop accusing the people pointing out a genocide happening of antisemitism?

You make a lot of assumptions about what I do or don’t do.

You can’t convince someone that has decided to believe the absurd enough to justify genocide of anything.

Tell me, have you begun to admit that it is yet? Or does the nationalism keep that from happening?

What do you think genocide looks like?

You aren’t the good guy you think you are, unless part of your world view is that genocide enablers can be good guys.

This is what rage at the people that helped enable genocide looks like.

It’s what holding the people that helped enable it accountable looks like.

As the numbers go up exponentially, as they will now that the deaths from starvation kick in, I will remind you that you called the people trying to raise the alarm antisemitic for doing so in the critical months that something could have been done.

You helped enable this. I will continue to remind you of the dead.

What I see, is a bigoted fucking genocide enabler.

Basically, since the end of world war two, most genocides are done the same fucking way. You concentrate the population you consider undesirable into an area whose borders you can control, then you cut off food.

Depending on the paranoia of population, they will have two to three months of food stores, unless you strip it from them first.

Then it takes about a month for the first deaths from starvation to kick in, with children first.

Then the numbers of people dying go up fucking fast.

This is how genocides are done. Mainly because it is so effective and most people don’t recognize that the first steps are genocidal. And those first months are critical. You HAVE to keep the food out.

During that time, when everyone with even the first bit of knowledge of history were screaming that Israel was committing genocide, disgusting genocide enablers like you would pop up trying to muddy the waters accusing people trying to warn the world that genocide was happening of antisemitism.

You know what the odds are of something happening when it already happened are? 100%

I’m not guessing at your motivations (I know you like to accuse anyone implying motivations of being antisemitic.)

I’m stating what your actions were. What the consequences are.

You enabled genocide.

The first children died last week. Even if food were to flood Gaza now, the children will be permanently handicapped. You don’t starve this much without there being permenent damage.

You helped buy Israel the month it needed once the food stores ran out. Maybe just a little, but still a little.

If ‘Never Again’ meant anything to you more than ‘Never Again to Jewish people’, then you have individually helped it fail.

Last week the first children (cause children always die first from starvation) died from starvation.

Say it with me: Israel is committing genocide you bigoted fuck.

There is no single ‘nut job’ pushing anything. It is simply being aware of current demographic trends in Michigan, and knowing that Biden won Michigan by only 11k votes.

I don’t need to listen to someone else to decide what my opinions are. I’m capable of looking at objective data, and drawing conclusions for myself. Lots of Michigan state DNC members, including the one that screamed the loudest that Clinton was going to lose are raising the same warnings about this election.

God, you’re so brain rotted by living in a bubble and blaming a foreign power for everything you literally are incapable of analyzing data yourself, if it leads to a conclusion you don’t like.

That is a really really bad place to be.

How do you think Biden wins Michigan?

Biden won Michigan by 11k votes.

Biden chose to give the next election to Trump so he could help Israel commit genocide.

Any Government that is intentionally blocking food, medicine, and potable water to a population it considers undesirable is a government intentionally committing genocide.

You’re repeating easily provably false lies to justify a government starving a population to death. Lies that Israels own newspapers have disproven, for at least some of the statements. You’re just another disgusting genocide cheerleader.

You think Israel are trying to kill as many palestinians as possible? They’re not doing a great job in that case.

You certainly seem like you’re trying to whitewash the forced starvation because the numbers didn’t increase that much during the initial 2 month period it takes for starvation to start once the Israelis started the starvation campaign.

They’re doing a great job.

The most effective way to depopulate an area is what the Nazis finally ended up doing, and has been done by every genocidal group since.

You starve the population.

It takes a month or two for food stores to run out, then it takes about a month for the starvation to start killing people. During those first two months the numbers don’t go up a large amount. Afterwards they go up FAST.

It also kills off the children first, so even if not fully successful, you’ve made the population older, and weaker, and less able to resist or fight back the next time.

This is what Israel is doing.

A 3 month old Palestinian boy died yesterday from starvation. He wasn’t even alive in Oct.

I hope you never have to eat grass to try to stave off the insanity inducing hunger you seem okay with Israel inducing.

Genocide is not complex.

If a government is intentionally withholding food, medicine and potable water from a population it considers undesirable, it is intentionally committing genocide.

There.

Simple.

A 3 month old Palestinian baby boy died of starvation yesterday.

He wasn’t even born in Oct.

They changed it fairly recently before 2016.

At this point it is clear you are arguing out of bad faith and not ignorance.

You’re apparently forgetting the head of the DNC that got fired for giving debate questions to Clinton.

You’re also apparently forgetting the DNC argument in court that because they are a private organization that they didn’t have to abide by their own rules requiring fairness.

None of those are even touching the super delegate issues that others commented on.