NAL. Stand your ground and do not put up with him treating you this way. If it starts to get sexual, go to the police.

Gen X

Yes. Be able to choose the right life insurance plan, investments, etc for my beneficiaries.

Holy crap. I don’t, but after seeing that I think I’ll need to start

Yes I don’t see any reason why not, but if you are hosting at home you likely have plenty of storage yourself and might not want to mess with configuring S3

You can store media in object storage (S3) to save a lot of money, although I haven’t made the transition yet. https://lemmy.eus/comment/165512

I have run both Plex and Jellyfin and I much prefer Jellyfin. I got sick of Plex content being interjected into my menus and feed. Plex also had issues seeing my server which was inconvenient. I now run Jellyfin with Infuse as my client. Love it so far.

Dumb question I know, but do I leave this running on my instance or on my own computer?

Just an idea. You could try hosting and using these apps on a VPS from a cloud provider to find out what your needs are.