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Cake day: June 8th, 2023

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  • I got banned from the Canada community and according to the mod log, it was for homophobia and bigotry.

    That really rubs me the wrong way because I’ve never ever posted anything like that. I’ve been the subject of homophobic and bigotry based bullying my whole life and the only comment I posted on that topic there was an account of my first hand experience of being catfished on Grindr and then outed as bi on the towns facebook page and subjected to ridicule and harassment.



  • People just want to be accepted and loved. Use this knowledge to get almost anyone to do what you want.

    Observe their body language. Do they cross their arms a lot? How much eye contact do they make? Do they shift around when talking? Do their eyes dart around the room?

    All these are clues about their personality and disposition and you can tailor your communication to them depending on how receptive they are. Do they laugh easily? What makes them laugh? Do they talk a lot? Do they talk about themselves?

    Finding out to what degree of extrovert/introvert they are can go a long way into successfully manipulating anyone around you to do what you want.

    It’s how I’ve made friends and how I’ve dated women with variable rates of success.





  • Here’s a hot take: Take shrooms. You’ll understand to your core that literally nothing matters and society is just a game of house that went too far. There’s so much you can’t control, so your coworkers political beliefs will seem like a very funny and intricate delusion they hold themselves to.

    Of course this might not be your experience, but sometimes things take too much bandwidth in our heads and we hyperfocus on it and then it affects our mental health and personality. A mental shakeup helps reframe everything and I’ve found that my anxiety over how the world is going greatly gets dealt with better in my head after a good trip.


  • PerogiBoi@lemmy.catoSelfhosted@lemmy.worldMy thoughts on docker
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    1 month ago

    I don’t like docker. It’s hard to update containers, hard to modify specific settings, hard to configure network settings, just overall for me I’ve had a bad experience. It’s fantastic for quickly spinning things up but for long term usecase and customizing it to work well with all my services, I find it lacking.

    I just create Debian containers or VMs for my different services using Proxmox. I have full control over all settings that I didn’t have in docker.









  • I’ve always had issues with docker, especially when running it on a proxmox vm. I get weird network issues where when docker runs, the whole vm is cut off from network access (but my docker containers have internet). I also have problems with updates. Maybe it’s the whole virtual-ception of it all, a vm running docker running an application.

    So far I’ve been getting by with running containers for every service (or VMs when I needed a gui since command line for certain things is tough.