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Cake day: June 30th, 2023

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  • And this hits another topic…

    Emotional expression is culturally derived.

    A raised eyebrow can mean very different things to different groups. Giving a thumbs up in Turkey or an okay sign in northern Africa will have radically different messages.

    I seriously hate emojis.

    They tell me nothing except that the sender is too lazy to give me a hint.






  • My own head cannon is that she never actually loved him but was convinced by Obi Wan to play the role to perhaps act as a stabilizing influence.

    But soon she discovers that her erstwhile side piece is a psychotic man-child with the powers of a minor god. Now things have spiraled out of her control. There’s a legitimate fear that, it rejected, Anakin could become unhinged and lose control.

    After a few years in a loveless marriage she found herself pregnant and, like in a lot of actual abusive marriages, latches onto that as a means of preserving a relationship that should have been allowed to mercifully die.

    This is the only way I can reconcile the terrible performance from an otherwise exemplary actress. She was playing the part of a woman playing a part.




  • I’m confused here…

    The “horse and sparrow” types have been telling us to not spend money unnecessarily. This will lead to being able to afford more bootstraps.

    Soon we realize that children are crazy expensive. Doubly so here in Freedom-land where you’re lucky if you get more than a few weeks off of work and a $75k hospital bill. Which your insurance company will fight to the bitter end.

    So we decide to be responsible and postpone family plans until we can afford it without going into debt for the rest of our lives.

    And now there’s a moral panic about that?!

    Pick one! Give up your monthly mega-yacht and allow the breeder class to get caught up financially, or stop griping about millennials postponing having children.


  • Totally agree with you.

    I was abused in church but never in school (outside of racial epithets). Sometimes it’s easy to forget that not everybody develops a gallows humor as a coping mechanism. Thinking back to those times while in a depressive stage is a recipe for disaster.

    But you are absolutely correct. Some things should only be joked about when in a group of trusted people. And I accept your advice in the spirit in which it was meant. To foster a more accepting and safer community for everybody and not as a way of getting a cheap joke.

    I’d much rather be gently corrected than to be part of the background noise that might be making people feel uncomfortable.

    Genuinely, thank you.