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  • Pretty much has been impossible to me to shake that feeling of “oh boy, here we go again” when I need to speak to someone, or someone needs to speak to me (like holding my breath but not really). Sometimes I had prepared answers beforehand, but those are useless, you forget them as soon as you need them.

    At the end of the day it’s just practice. I got used to always ask direct questions to cut conversations as short as possible. I think is more tiring being shy than to throw a few words (because sadly it takes more time if you lock yourself).

    I also disconnected the phone. There is no use for that shit in these times.

    It also helped that most of my friends know that I have issues dealing with people, so when they invite me to parties, they know its a possibility that I would not present myself, or if I do, I stay at most 1h. No one would actually care, since the party is for them too.


  • Bro, did you read your articles? All of them you could summarize in the same description I gave you (except for the shyness). Besides, these are no papers, these are articles created by randos on the internet, or worst, companies (you know, with commercial agendas). There is no review process for these. Wikipedia is more reliable.

    Introversion is a preference. Not a condition.




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    10 months ago

    If being an introvert is making you hate socializing, that means you don’t have sufficient recharge time in your life.

    Bro, the fuck does this even mean? Why would I “recharge myself” with something I dread for something I don’t need. How would YOU know about me or what do I do in life? or my free time? Aren’t you just projecting?



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    10 months ago

    Some people ITT seem to think being introvert is like a disease, something that needs to be treated. Some seem to think they can self diagnosis this horrible disease for societal validation (you know, like autism /s).

    Other people seem to think is all about being tired out of social interactions? Why? And since when.

    introvert noun someone who is shy, quiet, and prefers to spend time alone rather than often being with other people

    Is all about how someone acts. If they feel comfortable around others or not. Either you like being alone or not. And unless is directly related with work (like sales) , there is no such thing as a “social introvert”. Introverts don’t have the talent to call themselves social. Is more like a technique, something you fake until people stop bothering you.