I found dating apps may be helpful. I’m personally partial to romeo as I trust it most in terms of privacy over grindr.

I’m not a person who goes out a lot to parties or dancing.

Hikvision if you don’t mind sponsoring chinese govt for the hardware and blocking it from the internet.

Why?

i’m using virtuamin myself, gives you a pretty decent interface to work with.

I agree. Moving to another country, even if it is on paper requires money. So does a therapist. I’m in a better position than op and I don’t get a therapist although I could use one.

Self study is important though. speaking from experience with the same life experience as op, learning a new trade and going with it has changed my life for the better by a lot. finding the right (paying) employerin the trade is a bit of work (years). some jobs just don’t pay enough to live off. I know it’s wrong.

A tip I can give op is to put the savings in a bank account you don’t have access to. in the same of somebody else. I went through a period of cash only. This was pre-smartphone, so transfers between accounts required me to go to the bank. Perhaps move financial applications to a secondary phone if you have one, or install when needed.

Like the peer comment mentioned. just drop nginx in front and let it so the TLS handoff. always recommend to put nginx in front of any open source docker project as you can finetune many of the security controls there.

Would you care to elaborate?