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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • Honestly, the rules and laws on divorce are so wild across the country. I was married in California but my husband left after 6 months. I hadn’t see him in 9 or 10 years, had no idea where he was.

    Because I was in the state of Kentucky when I filed, I had to go to a church run “divorce education class” on how to save my marriage and complete a little workbook.

    Completely insane class, I stayed in the back and tried to stay silent, but the teacher forced me to participate and asked some leading question about how I could communicate better with my spouse to prevent a divorce or some shit.

    Told her I had no idea where my spouse was, that he had left after 6 months and that I had to hire a private investigator (and a police officer!) to serve my divorce papers. The whole thing was nuts.






  • I have had three moles removed from my face by a regular gp here in Australia. Not a plastic surgeon, just a good gp I trust.

    They have all healed beautifully, with invisible scarring.

    I tend to keloid on my arms and trunk, so I was very careful with healing. As soon as the stitches came out I put silicone tape over it and kept it taped over a few months.

    If it started to feel itchy (a sign of keiloid forming) I would apply a steroid cream.

    During the day when I was out and about I used skin coloured silicone scar tape cut to fit, these tapes are very expensive though.

    When I was at home or sleeping I used “Fixomul Sensitive” which uses a silicone adhesive and is very inexpensive for a whole roll.

    Once they had healed enough that they were flat and white (not the pink or red of a healing scar) I stopped with the tape and was very careful to apply good sunscreen for the rest of a year.

    You cannot tell I had anything done, at all.

    Be careful with healing and you will be fine! <3