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  • I don’t know how much I even want from a phone these days. Just seems like things have stagnated in the mobile market for the past few years.

    I honestly don’t know what I enjoy more about my current phone compared to the one I had 10 years ago.

    They can be used for communication, payments, maps, music, YT and browsing the web. I think I’ll just get a small, cheap phone next time, as it’ll still check all those boxes.








  • li10@feddit.uktoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml*Permanently Deleted*
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    9 months ago

    Hmm, okay, sounds like focusing on the bits you do end up saying is going to help.

    Maybe ask your manager or someone to give you examples of when you’re being disruptive and how to approach it differently next time.

    I know that’s a bit awkward, but if you fundamentally don’t understand what you’re doing wrong then you need external feedback.


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    9 months ago

    I also have that issue, so I try and focus on not going too far down the rabbit hole if it’s not relevant.

    If I’m speaking to my boss I’ll say:

    “This happens because of that, I’m gonna fix that”

    As opposed to:

    “What’s happening is X does Y, then Z occurs. That’s because of the A and B not being quite right, because B is blah blah blah. I thought about trying option 1, but that doesn’t work because blah, option 2 doesn’t work either because blah, but option 3 works because of blah blah blah.”

    If they don’t need that info, then you don’t need to share it.


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    9 months ago

    It sounds like you’re taking “over participating” to mean that you’re getting involved in too many conversations, when it actually sounds like you’re just dominating any conversation you get involved in.

    It doesn’t matter that you avoid 90% of conversations if you’re still disrupting any that you do get involved with.

    The key to being good in conversation is to actively listen and nudge other people to carry on talking. It sounds like you’re just waiting your turn then talking about whatever you feel like.

    I don’t have any specific advice, except that you should probably focus on what you do say, as opposed to what you don’t say, if that makes sense.





  • li10@feddit.uktoAntiwork@lemmy.mlI sure as hell don't.
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    10 months ago

    Seems like you’re looking for an argument and using me as a straw man, considering I’ve said none of that and actually agree with the points you’re making.

    If you work and do your part you should get shelter, medical care and all the other necessities, as well as time to live your life.

    Someone’s part is whatever they’re able to do. If they have disabilities that mean they can’t contribute in a work environment then they’ve essentially already done their part.

    There needs to be a base level that means everyone is protected and has what they need. And in an ideal world I’d like to see people like teachers and doctors being among the highest paid/rewarded for what they do.


  • li10@feddit.uktoAntiwork@lemmy.mlI sure as hell don't.
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    10 months ago

    Actually, the person in the tweet is saying they don’t want to work. If you go based off that, then they don’t want to be a part of any society, they just want everything for free.

    If you want to be part of society, then you work and contribute. Otherwise, you’re just a leech. Whether you’re a billionaire or a poor one.