It’s her I miss, beyond any doubts. I’m fighting like hell to work something out, but also trying to give her some space, it’s difficult finding the right balance between the two.

I’ve done all of this as best I can, but I’m struggling with the eating and sleeping. I’m doing my best though.

My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me on Sunday, she’s the love of my life (have known each other far longer than 2 years). We have a child together, I don’t know what to do about it.

I’m trying to talk to her and discuss how we can work through it, I don’t know if it’s going to work.

Keep your fingers crossed for me I guess?

I also haven’t eaten or slept properly since, I’m starving but I can’t actually put food in my mouth.

This paired with moonlight & sunshine will work perfectly.

Witcher 3, is was so bored for the first 30 mins I turned it off. Came back a year later, now got around 300 hours in the game.

Not seeing anyone suggesting unRAID… it’s perfect for this kind of thing (from experience). VMs, LXC, Docker & flexible storage options.

Has its own App Store built in as well🤷‍♀️

Thanks good to know, after I hit this upload limit with one of my services I honestly considered nuking the whole nginx setup and using WG or TS, still on the fence about it all

100mb is the max I think

Been using nextcloud for about 5 years, right now I use it for storing files and nothing else, and it still kinda sucks at that.

Gonna use paperless for any documents I have in NC, after that there won’t be much left in there, just some old dot files. Maybe I’ll get rid of it entirely

I don’t like the use of the word cloud, makes it sound like some mystical virtual environment in the sky that anyone can use and it just works.

It’s someone else’s computer, nothing more

Surely that’s only an issue if you’re telling nginx the internal IP of the container, instead of the IP it’s mapped to on the host? The host IP would always be the same, assuming the host IP is static.

Always better to use the container names where possible to get around all of this crap.

I’ve considered using traefik but it seems to have more features than I need, I know nginx and I’m comfortable with what I know.

Updated post with the fix

Thats whats not working, but I can ping them from within the swag container using the container name

I set mine to 5G I think but it seems to be a common issue with iOS from what I’ve seen on GitHub. I’ve got a 14 pro and videos are usually really large file sizes which doesn’t help.

After posting this I found that you can change the directory structure, but not too sure I want to change it now and break things. I’ll set my backup to only include the library folder, I could always run a script to take all the image and video files out and throw them into a single folder for a fresh start of immich or something similar.

I use rclone as well, for uploading to G Drive.

Ship names from the expanse.

My PC is the Rocinante My home server was previously the Behemoth, put it in a smaller case so now it’s Medina.

Did you get anywhere with this?

Encrypted backup to google drive weekly from unraid, planning to get a NAS for another backup location

Your 4th point is the opposite for me, any kind of subtitles I have on causes transcoding in jellyfin. Its the only thing stopping me from switching fully.

binhex hinted that he might be building a CA, other than that people have had luck with docker compose plugin (not me though, can’t get it working)