• Powderhorn@beehaw.org
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    7 months ago

    You’re really not painting a good picture here. I’ve upped my suggestion in the mod channel from 72 hours to a week, vacationwise.

    I don’t like to pull rank, but if this is how you talk to a mod, it’s unlikely you’re doing any better elsewhere. Not a huge deal in public communities, but there’s the black box of DMs.

    I think I was pretty gentle on escalation. You were not.

      • ranandtoldthat@beehaw.org
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        7 months ago

        I’m not a mod and you’re really being unfriendly to multiple users right here, right now. Be nicer, even (especially?) when you disagree.

        • womjunru@lemmy.cafeBanned
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          7 months ago

          I’d rather someone be rude to me than passive-aggressive. That’s way more uncivil.

          • ranandtoldthat@beehaw.org
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            7 months ago

            If that’s your personal preference, that’s fine. Just recognize that not everyone is OK with people being rude (or unfriendly, etc) to them.

            Beehaw is structured around that understanding (among others).

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                7 months ago

                Beehaw is nice on that they don’t tolerate faux-civility in any form. If you see a spate of of passive aggression, report it.

                It can be a bit easier to spot active aggression in rudeness, etc, but that doesn’t imply passive aggression is somehow “nice”.

                • madlian@lemmy.cafeBanned
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                  7 months ago

                  I disagree, and have recently been the victim of faux civility, gang abuse, mod abuse, bans for not accepting abuse, gaslighting, and overall hypocrisy.

                  And we all know you can’t report mods or favored users. You just take the abuse and have multiple accounts. But that’s Lemmy in a nutshell 🤷‍♂️